Monday, September 21, 2009

The Dreaded In-Laws!

I hear a lot of complaining about in-laws. "Ugh, my mother-in-law is coming to visit, I'm definitely going to need to get out of the house!" "I really don't want to go on vacation if your parents are going with us."

I just don't get that. I love my in-laws. I think I really lucked out in that random pool. My hubby has two sisters. One older, one younger. Yes, he's the middle child. I know what you're thinking "middle child syndrome." Not at all. His whole family has such an "I love life" spirit. They are always so positive and happy. I'm not a total Negative Nancy but I just don't get that excited over some things. Happiness is a gene I hope was passed down from my husband to my son. Everything always so fabulous and scrumptuous and delightful. I love that. I hope it starts to wear off on my "everything's mediocre" attitude.

My husband's older sister is 44. He's 28. Big age gap, right? His parents had Kim a year after they were married. They joke and say they wanted to wait and see how she turned out before having any more. She turned out great because 16 years later Mike was born. Then two years after that, Dawn.

Kim is awesome. She may be 44 but you would think she's 34. She looks great. I hope I age that well. Come to think of it, his whole family looks way younger than their numerical age would tell you. They are so young at heart, I think it keeps them young physically too. Please let that rub off on me!

Dawn is 25, my age. We graduated the same year and everything. It's really cool to have sisters-in-law you can also call your friends. We go out to parties and bars, and don't feel the typical "I'm obligated to hang out with you because we're related by marriage now" thing.

They're just pretty awesome people and I guess I wanted to share with the world that not all in-laws are bad. Even if you are like some people I know who at times, have the most irritating in-laws ever (you know who you are) you know they'll be there when you need them and that's what matters the most. Family is such an unbreakable bond that even when you don't like eachother, you love eachother and that tends to conquer everything else.

6 comments:

Julie@Momspective said...

I have great in-laws and am lucky my DH thinks he does too!

Mama Karebare said...

:-)

NeCole@Eclectic Ecstasy said...

Having had crappy inlaws with my first marriage, I can now fully appreciate the great inlaws I currently have. Sometimes experiencing the bad makes the good much sweeter. I'm hoping to use that philosophy in our Fantasy Football league since you kicked my butt good this week in our matchup, lol--congrats on your win!

Theta Mom said...

I love my in-laws, too! :)

amy Brown said...

you are lucky!!! I'm not a fan of my "in-laws" they're cheap and always expect me to drive an hour and a half out to see them but they NEVER come out to see us. I could go on.. but I won't, or I'll get in a bad mood HA HA!

boomermom said...

I'm so happy that you have such a wonderful in-law family, too! They are definitely the "positivetons"...unlike us "negativetons"...see God always gives you what you need...

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